DRAMA!

My question today is: What do people get out of starting DRAMA?
Why do people talk about other people behind their backs? Sure, you don't want to be rude to them, (or at least not to their face). I really don't get it. What do you even Consider drama to really be? My answer is: Drama is when you don't really know a person (meaning that you can't tell me what their favorite colors are, what type of food they like, what color eyes they have, etc. without asking/looking at them) and you talk about them like they are trash. When people do that. IT'S REALLY ANNOYING!! I am not saying that I am innocent, or that I have never 'Gossiped" before, but I now realize how hurtful that can really be. Drama is a rumor. Something that someone makes up, and tells someone, then that person goes off and tells someone else, and so on. What is the point? If you hear something about someone, and you are really curious of it is true about them or not, then why not go ask them yourself? In my opinion it would be much easier. Another thing, if you are going to say something about someone, and don't want to say their name, but make it SOOO obvious of who it is, then you just wasted your time. I know that there are some things that you may not like about someone, and maybe it's something they did to you in the past, but the point is, why not try to fix it instead of make it worse??
A close friend of mine once told me, "Life is only as hard as you make it." Well, in some cases that is true, but in others, sorry, not so true. There are always two sides to a story. Bad things normally happen when there is a misunderstanding, or if someone is being stubborn. They may also come from misleadings, and assumptions. I know from experience. It really sucks to be talked about. Especially when you have no idea what you've done to that person, and they can't even tell you what you did/or might have done. It's very frustrating. I just want to say that EVERYONE is a hypacrit at some point. Like now. I will admit that I hate the fact that people talk about people, but I, myself have talked about people. Most of the time I only talk facts though. I do not make up stuff about people just for fun. I almost ALWAYS have a reason. AND I only share what I need to say to someone that I know for a fact that I can trust. (Not that there's a lot of them.) That's right, there aren't very many people out there that you can trust with your life. Most of the time, the people you can actually trust are the people that you don't think you can trust, or that you aren't good friends with. Just think, the person you call your "BEST-friend" may actually be your enemy's "BEST-friend" too. The person you tell your deepest secrets to, the person who says that they will be there for you no matter what.... will they really? This my friends is called being two-faced. If you are friends with two people, and they don't like eachother, but you like both of them, what do you do when one of them starts talking about the other? Well, 99.9% of the time you just go along with it; talk bad about your other "friend" I know that's the easy thing to do. But life isn't always easy. No one ever said that it would be easy either. So for real, if you REALLY are "FRIENDS" with the person they're talking about, then why is it so hard to say, "Hey, I would really appreciate it if you wouldn't talk about that person around me. He/She is my friend, and if you want to talk about them then you can either go somewhere else, or wait til I leave. I would highly appreciate it. Thank you." But, if you're too SCARED, then go ahead, talk about your supposable "friend," cuz it's really gonna hurt when they find out what you said because your other "friend" was two-facing you as well.

Just stop and think about what you do and say every once in a while. Try to erase the marks instead of trying to just scribble them out. I hope this helps you in any way possible. If you have anything to say, FEEL FREE. Thanks for reading!